If you have children, then it can be a daunting prospect knowing they will be growing up in a dangerous world. It is up to parents to ensure their children are aware of all the dangers they could encounter in the outside world and to teach children how to stay safe out there. While they are babies, you can protect them slightly more than older children. Older children always want to be more independent which means exposing themselves to risks and calculating these risks. See below to learn more about the dangers your children could face. 

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When Walking Alone

If your children ever want to walk home from school or the shops on their own, then it is vital you teach them how to be safe. There will inevitably come a time when this happens to all families, especially if your child needs to walk home from big school if you are working. If your child is aware of all dangers associated with walking home alone, then they will be better equipped to handle anything that crops up. 

It is paramount to teach your children about stranger danger from a young age. Never approach strangers and never ever talk back if they speak to them. If your child is on their own and they think someone is following them, tell them to walk or run as fast as they can to a populated area and ask for help. You can invest in a personal protection alarm for your child to carry on them at all times. This will give them and you the peace of mind to know that they will be slightly safer when on their own. 

If They Ever Lose You In A Crowd

Something else to teach your children how to stay safe is what to do if they ever lose you when out and about. This can happen at any age, and it is down to your teachings as to how your children handle it. There are plenty of stories about children wandering off in shopping malls or getting lost in supermarkets or on crowded streets.

A great tip is to teach them to speak to a member of staff if they ever get separated from you or their carer. When you enter a store, show them what the staff members look like and how to identify them. If they wear a uniform, then it will be much easier to spot them amongst all the other customers. Older children can be taught about meeting points if they get split up. For example, if you are out and about and there is a fountain or a particular shop, then this can be your meeting point. Tell them to go there and wait for you as soon as they realize they have lost you. 

Teach children how to stay safe online

Another thing to be aware of and make your children aware of is online bullying and games that can endanger them. We live in a digital world, and we need to make sure that our children are using a safe internet for kids. There has been a lot of talks lately about dangerous TikTok challenges that can put your children’s life at risk. Social media apps have age restrictions on them for a reason, and it is important to stick to these. If your children are suffering from peer pressure, then they may be pestering you to allow them to join these sites. Don’t give in and stand your ground; your children will be better off without them until they are older. 

Cyberbullying is extremely prevalent these days; it is important your children don’t take great offence to what is being said to them. Unfortunately, it doesn’t just end when your children leave the school gates behind. There are many good reasons why children should have a phone, tablet or laptop, but if they do, then ensure you are open and honest with them about what can happen. Dangers can come from chat rooms, social media sites, or their so-called friends at school. If you have access to these tech devices, then you can continually monitor what is happening in your child’s life. 

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Report Bullying

If you know or suspect that your child is experiencing any form of bullying then it is essential you report this. It should first be raised with your child’s school if it involves pupils who attend there. If nothing is done about this then you can report it to the police. 

We hope you found this article helpful and it gave you some insight into protecting your children when they are going out and about in the big wide world without you. One thing that is super important is building trust with your children. Trust leads to open relationships, which means your children will feel more comfortable approaching you and talking to you if there is a problem.